Great On The Job



The GOTJ book is coming! Spring 2011,
St. Martin’s Press








Flatter the Husbands Distract the Wives

There’s not a lot of attention being paid these days to the high-end luxury market-yachts, French villas, the Mercedes S Class-it all seems to be in poor taste on some level.  It’s as if the whole country has hunkered down, clipping coupons, eating Ramen and adopting a “wait and see” mentality on everything from visiting the dentist to buying a new home.

So you can imagine my surprise at a WSJ article on, of all things, “How to Sell a $35,000 Watch in a Recession.”  The eternal optimist and a “true patriot” as my husband says, I am not the most frugal of consumers, and yet nonetheless it struck me as hugely surprising that anyone could sell a timepiece for the price of a BMW in today’s wilting economy.

Jean-Marie Brücker, the salesman in question (of course that’s his name) and chief executive of Pôle Luxe, a Paris-based luxury-sales consulting group, (Cartier and Van Cleef & Arpels are clients) says business is booming in the recession.  He is opening new offices in New York, Hong Kong and Shanghai. He drives a Ferrari and has 61 luxury watches of his own.

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Confronting Your Critics & Addressing Negative Feedback

If you’re a small business and you get slammed online for surly wait staff, crappy pizza or poor service, there’s only so much you can do to fight back to your critics on Yelp.  According to a great article in Inc. Magazine, Craig Stoll, co-owner of Pizzeria Delfina in San Francisco handles the negative feedback in a more creative way-he flaunts it-on t-shirts for his staff.  In Delfina’s opinion, fighting back on-line is a lose-lose situation, you either come off “defensive or accusatory” he says.

But others disagree with Stoll and say online feedback, no matter how brutal, can be a good opportunity for identifying areas of opportunity and improvement.  Boutique bookstore owner Eric Kirsammer of Quimby’s Bookstore in Chicago uses Yelp to regularly check for tips of what he could be doing better.  Quimby’s got rave reviews for the store’s selection but poor remarks for a perceived unwelcoming staff.  The solution? Kirsammer revamped his customer service approach and now makes a point of being extra welcoming, especially to new customers.

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GOTJ Book Deal (July Newsletter)

Hi everyone,

I hope you’re all having a great summer. Last month, I was excited to share the news that Great on the Job had launched its blog. This month, I’m even more exited (thrilled, quite frankly) to report that Great on the Job is making it to prime time—I’ve got myself a book deal! That’s right, for everyone who has participated in a Great on the Job training program and asked, “Where can I get more?” I’ve now got the answer for you. St Martin’s Press will be publishing Great on the Job’s greatest hits (no, that’s not the title, obviously) in the spring of 2011. It’s a long way off, I know, but I promise you all it will be worth the wait.To my agent, Todd Shuster of Zachary Shuster Harmsworth, a million and one thank yous!

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Top Five Ways to Stay In Touch

Reaching out, touching base, grabbing coffee, schmoozing, stalking, tweeting, friending, or even an old-fashioned “let’s do lunch”- the list of networking possibilities is exhausting even to just contemplate.

But staying in touch isn’t always in person and it definitely doesn’t have to be hard.  Keith Ferrazzi, networker extraordinaire and author of Who’s Got Your Back? posted his “pinging primer on his website and gave some great advice on how to think about pinging your contacts (I loved the way he organized his speed dial).

Great on the Job takes it one step further.  I use TOUs, or thinking of yous, to encourage people to reach out to others in their network.  TOUs are short emails and whereas an IOU makes you indebted to someone, TOUs instead create goodwill.  Thinking of yous are inherently generous and the goal is to maintain relevance with someone by sharing information or passing along well wishes, with the side benefit of keeping someone on your radar or staying on theirs.

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Get it Right, Not Fast: A Lesson from Walter Cronkite

I was watching “Remembering Walter Cronkite” on TV last night and I was blown away by the following story: Cronkite was on the air doing the nightly news and received a call during a commercial break from Tom Johnson, Lyndon Johnson’s press secretary, to inform Mr. Cronkite that Lyndon Johnson had just passed away.

At the end of the commercial break, Cronkite was still on the phone getting the full story. Producers and newsman were apparently rushing to get him off the phone as the show resumed.  Instead, Cronkite looked straight into the camera, raised a finger as if to say “hold on a second here” and continued the call in front of the American public with the cameras rolling.

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Let me Get Back to You—How to Be Professional When You’re Not at All in Professional Mode

My good friend Lauren, a successful art advisor, recently told me that she gets stressed out when a client or art gallery calls and she’s not officially “working” i.e. she’s spending an afternoon with her son, taking care of personal business, or just checked out mentally or physically for an hour or two.

Lauren is like a lot of successful entrepreneurs I know, especially women.   She’s a multi-tasker in every sense of the word. She runs a successful business, but she does it part time.  Or better said, she runs it on her own time.  There is an important distinction there.

When Lauren sees a call come in from someone she’s not equipped to speak with at that very moment, I advise against taking the call.  It really doesn’t do you any favors to pick up a call when you’re at the playground or in the grocery store-the kids shouting, the deli counter repeating back your order or the fire trucks going by-none of that messages professionalism.

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Mr. Wrong

A beautiful and talented girlfriend of mine, let’s call her Anna, was dating a guy, let’s call him Mr. Right, whom she adored.  It was one of those “smitten at first sight” type things where they totally connected when they first met and he swept her off her feet.  She hadn’t felt this way about anyone in a long time and all signs pointed to the fact that the feeling was mutual.

And then, as so often happens when boy meets girl-girl gets attached, boy disappears and girl’s friends do their best to tell her he wasn’t all that anyway.  As one of those friends, I tried to comfort and reassure Anna after Mr. Right went MIA.

Fortunately or unfortunately, as Anna was rehashing all of Mr. Right’s sudden and inexplicable transgressions, I inadvertently reverted into my GOTJ lens.  I was immediately struck by Mr. Right’s lack of generosity (three word text after a week of radio silence?) and inertia (no mention of future plans).  I couldn’t contain myself.  I said, Anna, I’m sorry to go here, but I have to tell you, Mr. Right is all wrong.

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Generosity in Action

I spend a lot of time coaching people on how to ask for help without sounding dumb.  I’m a firm believer in getting the help you need upfront instead of spinning your wheels on the backend- 2:00 am alone in the office is never fun (banker flashback). 

So I love this quote from Michael Wilbon, an ESPN commentator and sports writer, who was working on an article in the early 1980s and needed some help.  His boss ordered him to call former Boston Celtic’s coach and basketball legend Red Auerbach.  Wilbon said he might as well have been asked to call God.  Wilbon started off the conversation by apologizing for interrupting Red’s evening at home, to which Red responded “kid, if it’s a choice between interrupting me or writing something stupid, call.” 

What an amazingly generous response!  Wilbon went on to say that he took Red up on the offer periodically over the ensuing years.  Think about Red the next time someone asks you for help or assistance-if you’re in a rush, you’re on a deadline, you’re not interested, take a minute and remember that it could very well be you next time on the other end in need of help.  

Sports fan bonus: Boston.com Sports

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In Search of the Great American Pie…

This one might rival our airline passenger (An Unlikely Hero).   An unsuspecting waitress serves a discerning food critic and lands her joint on GQ’s America’s Best list.  Tomatoes Apizza, a Metro Detroit pizzeria, received the following note from a customer:  “My compliments to Danielle, our waitress who took the order, put down her pad, and under an emergency staffing shortage prepared our pepperoni pie exactly right.”

Danielle Brehm, the waitress, had no idea she was serving Alan Richman, a GQ writer on a high profile, 20,000-mile search for the perfect pizza.  Danielle’s quick thinking and willingness to jump into the void proved invaluable to Mike Weinsten, Tomatoes Apizza’s owner.  In a time of crisis, Danielle simply stepped into the breach. She had no idea who she was serving.  “She took care of him,” says Weinstein, emotion in his voice. “She made a solid pie.”

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An Unlikely Hero

This week, an amazing thing happened. An airline passenger spoke up, raised a red flag, and saved the lives of nearly 300 people. It was an international flight from Chicago to Japan, and a passenger noticed a fuel leak on the jetliner. The passenger alerted a flight attendant but his concern was dismissed out of hand. The passenger, who also happened to be an Air Force sergeant and an air refueling boom operator, continued to watch and began video taping the fuel leak from his seat. Shortly thereafter, he spoke up again, this time saying: “Ma’am, it’s an emergency.”

With that, the flight attendant alerted the crew and pilot-who had been perplexed as to how they were losing 6,000 pounds of jet fuel per hour. The pilot diverted the plane to San Francisco and later admitted they would have never made it to Japan. The Air Force sergeant is today being hailed as a hero for averting disaster and saving the lives of ~300 people.

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